For Better or worse?

I have made a decision I am married for better or worse whatever that means, I am really trying.......I have certain religious beliefs that demand of me to honor my vows even though my dear husband hasn't.......I don't know exactly something to do with long suffering and hopefully God will look at me and say I did the right thing and that is all that matters I know I am not perfect but my hope is this; I wish to work on all the damage created by the lies, porn and actual affair that he had. I wish to heal for myself and stay married to him, I wish for him to address his problems and start upholding his marriage vows; we will have to start over as friends and see what happens the damage has been going on for 9 years and will take time to overcome. I hope this is not in vain, time will tell.